Saturday, December 20, 2008

wedding websites

I have been looking at wedding websites a lot recently,most times just looking at the pictures.I came across a site belonging to a couple i was acquainted with and looked at their story page...let's say there were some important details left out of that story.People are aware of how romantic a story is when it's describing how long the couple have been together or how they saw themselves across the room and it was love at first sight.All that is well and good but please if it really didnt happen,dont make up details because not all relationships started off smoothly.I know it's your prerogative to write what you want on your wedding site but it really doesn't have to be played out like a nollywood script.

Dont say you have been together for 8 years when you broke up for four years and you were dating other people-i think it's kind of disrespectful to your partners then.
I am all for the stories that make me go "Aww" but I dont want to be doing that all over a fake story,even normal relationships that didn't last decades can be romantic in their own way.If only we could all have love stories a la "love and basketball".Aww


O.k rant over,**back to looking at cool wedding pics**.
XOXO

10 comments:

The Boob Sistas said...

Hello girl, why is everyone hooked on wedding websites these days? lol. Please visit my blog when you can. Merry xmas and a happy new year in advance. xoxo

Emeka Amakeze said...

Experiences like the one you've had have a lot to teach. Most people are often too busy checking out other people's love story to realize how romantic theirs are. When some of these made up love stories happen to be told by victims of love accidents that you know very well, you see how desperate they want their story to be impressive, you will be forced to take stock.
Merry Christmas.

princesa said...

I also wonder when i read all the fairytales stories in wedding webbies.
I almost want to scream: This is real life we're talking about people!!!

Uzezi said...

Merry christmas. I should get hooked to wedding websites too

Smile To The Bank said...

Merry Christmas

s.chic said...

share some of the sites pls...

SOLOMONSYDELLE said...

lol! gurrl! you calling people out oh!

Anyway, happy new year toy ou!

NigerianDramaQueen said...

Thanks for the dose of reality! I was going through a couple of wedding websites last year and I was like dang, I'm all for love and romance, but this all sounds fresh off a movie-where's my fairytale!!! LOL. People should realize that the pain and struggles in a relationship are just as endearing and encouraging to others...
I guess some people just feel the need to add sugar and spice for that "awww" effect...lol

Miss Iyabo Opeke said...

Where are you...??? Happy New Year...!!!!

Anonymous said...

i used to be so into wedding websites but now it like aaaargh